When you can’t manifest and you are running out of money.

“Stop beating around the bush, turning in circles, going around and around and driving yourself crazy.

Put some structure in your lazyass life. Choose a destination and make it happen.

Create your business and get on with it. Stop fucking around.”

That was what the inner-oppressor was telling my client. 

I wanted to help but I don’t know if I did. If I could get a message to her or anyone who is hurting, it would be this post. 

The thing is, it’s scary to try to do something you haven’t done before. It hurts when you fail because we have not been taught how to fail in non-catastrophic ways. The culture has pushed a monumental misunderstanding of crossing a line and arriving at a place called success. So you either get there or you fail.  Think about that. Think about how much of your desire is focused on goal attainment and meeting deadlines. What choice do you have if you don’t pull it off? How do you see yourself? What does your inner oppressor berate you with?

If you are fed up with the struggle and frustration please know –

The words you speak to yourself matter.

Watch for places that you blame yourself, anyone, or anything, or any pattern…even big systems patterns like women don’t get heard as much as men. It can be so subtle and you must watch for it because any form of playing the victim is deadly for business building. It took me a long time to learn this. 

Listen, I know you’ve done a lot of work and you aren’t new to healing and clearing energy. The last thing I want to do is imply that if we are just pure light beings we will manifest great riches. Not at all. What I’ve learned, and continue to learn, is that our commitments determine success or failure.

The project or book may or may not be received right away in the marketplace. What matters is what happens next. Because these things change us. Success will expand you in one way and failure in another. Both are teachers. Both lead to deeper awareness, skillfulness, and compassion. 

We are asked to find new ways to navigate the always-on, always-connected digital world.

A sane approach is to know that you are embedded in a meaningful and purposeful cosmos. You can’t help but manifest here. The key is to become familiar with the help all around you responding to your vibration.

Take one tiny step toward the Good already/always here. 

You are not alone and you are not crazy. Your inner-oppressor will have fade away as you begin to follow your joy. 

You are welcome here.